Always doubt her boyfriend betrayal
Q: always doubt her boyfriend betrayal
Since the discovery of a boyfriend, although I choose against the excuse, but just saw him and other women chat a bit longer, I will be very irritable, his message a more, also can control the disorderly think and carry me… But I guess the actual is irrational. I’m tired of his mind, and such as irrational hatred fu, feel terrible. Besides, what method?
A: when we don’t know what to do, “should”, at least, also can stop the “shouldn’t do”. Now you need to remind yourself calm, avoid the “color”, make suspected other more damage to the relationship. Imagine, if oldgerman ourselves is often review, tracking, perhaps too will become angry from embarrassment, instead of making radical.
On the other hand, you also learn how to stop yourself against. Try to understand, but not to criticize the “constantly doubt her boyfriend, to understand the woman in her these seemingly inexplicable action, which hides behind the unsatisfied desire? Next, have similar ideas emerged, keeping a relaxed, open free association. Look at your imagination world, until he found the betrayal, you would react? His hair was shredding the curse? Still keep coldly lookinging at the cry, he fell on the ground ask you to forgive?
By the imagination, you will come to understand themselves and hidden desire. Some Actually, it is called “the betrayal I love to others”. This will not only hurt in adult relationships, many children in the mother go out to work time is deeply “mother love her more work”. When I grew up, they have forgotten the specific things, but remember the wounded feelings, and hope in the next love healing trauma. Great care of your heart that injured child, will not have to worry about her future will grow into a hatred fu.